Communications Challenge

Day 3: Why Emotional Intelligence Is the Key to Being A Great Communicator

March 4, 2021

Comments

I got 13 out of 20. That was definitely harder than I thought it was going to be.
Adam
March, 9 2021 4:09PM
Hahaha Morgen. Watch that Siaki (20/20)!
James Lee
March, 8 2021 11:53AM
13 out of 20. I'm with you Darlene overanalyzing is not your friend.
Arturo
March, 8 2021 11:37AM
18 out of 20. I'm going to start playing poker.
Morgen
March, 8 2021 8:06AM
13 - glad it's only one tool in the toolbelt and am looking forward to improvement in this area.

I loved the table in the first article because it provides a map for how I can go from weighing down on a situation to becoming part of progress or the solution. Also appreciated the video, which was a good reminder of how important active watching/listening is.
James Lee
March, 8 2021 7:51AM
I liked the sentence by Danial Goleman. "The goal is balance, not emotional suppression. Every feeling has its values and significance. Love Alan Alda. What a voice.
Morgen
March, 8 2021 7:48AM
16 out of 20
David G.
March, 5 2021 1:26PM
13 of 20 I'm good right
Dave S.
March, 4 2021 2:58PM
13 out of 20. I am not surprised at my score, and the reason I wouldn't say I like to judge someone off a facial expression. I have often been told I look upset when I am not, haha.
Jenn
March, 4 2021 11:17AM
13! Once I stopped overthinking the facial expressions I got them right. Which is why emotional intelligence is hard for me, I work at it because if I don't shoot straight from the hip (that is not always good) I tend to overthink things and don't always respond properly. I have to work at reading the room (or person), not always saying exactly what comes to mind and delaying my responses. I'm not always successful but I have gotten a lot better! Thanks for the article!
Darlene
March, 4 2021 9:28AM
17/20
I learned how applying the emotional-intelligence chart to your everyday pre-conversation checklist can set up the conversation in a logical direction, rather than emotionally driven.
Jake
March, 4 2021 9:20AM
I've have taken different versions of the test over the years. I've gotten as low as 75% and as high as 90% - Never 100%. I think of it as just one tool in the toolbox that helps us relate to one another. I have read the book maybe 3 times since my late 20's. I am glad I had the chance to come back to it for this challenge. Thanks for all the insightful comments and exchange of thoughts and ideas.
Nem
March, 4 2021 9:15AM
15 out of 20. In my case a lot of people judge me by my face expression. They always tell me why I look mad or why do I look mean. Sometimes I don't even know it. That's why is not good to judge people by it's cover until you open the book and read it. Thanks
Alex
March, 4 2021 9:05AM
Great exercise. 20 out of 20
Siaki
March, 4 2021 9:04AM
18/20 It was a fun game guessing their facial expressions. Hopefully keeping these things in mind will help me communicate better in the future.
David I.
March, 4 2021 9:01AM
16/20 right on the test. who knew Hawkey from mash would provide good communication input. goleman "make it or break" no "undo"
Jaysen
March, 4 2021 9:00AM
I got 13 out of 20 right. I'm average. That was a fun exercise. I think when I do facial expression people know exactly what i'm thinking.
Tessa
March, 4 2021 8:20AM
17 out of 20
Wayne
March, 4 2021 8:11AM
11/20. Very interesting & informative. This was a fun exercise.
Kellen
March, 4 2021 8:07AM
16 out of 20

Emotional Intelligence is not only the key to being a great communicator, it is the essence of and at the heart communication. It allows us to derive and deliver meaning to words, which impact the lives around us. That is a tremendous responsibility.
Rob
March, 4 2021 8:05AM
12 out of 20. Room for improvement. Let the "guess the facial expression" game begin!
Raymond
March, 4 2021 8:01AM
The facial expressions were a fun little exercise I missed 5 I felt that wasn't all that bad. I related heavily to the video. I personally have always struggled with long term engagement when it comes to conversations. It's not that I don't care about what someone is saying it's more of an overactive brain. I picked up a few good tips on how to overcome that when communicating. Overall, fun topic thank you.
Jonathan
March, 4 2021 8:00AM
18 out of 20
Pete
March, 4 2021 7:42AM
Great video and his book looks like fun. I was shocked that I missed 9 facial expressions out of 20. Today I learned that I misread facial expressions.
Dennis
March, 4 2021 7:25AM
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